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Dating a girl who never had a boyfriend

In my years of diving deeply into the intimate details of Nice Guy’s lives, I’ve been struck by a recurring theme: lack of sexual leadership by men.

By this I mean guys who do not boldly and directly initiate sex with their partners (and women they’re attracted to in general), men who use indirect methods to meet their sexual needs (manipulation), and/or men who rely on pornography for sexual stimulation. These men tend to be passive and avoidant in all forms of sexuality, including touching, kissing and verbal sexuality (dirty talk).

They get emotionally agitated when rejected sexually, demonstrated by completely fake acceptance (masking rage), depression, or by taking it personally. Women around the world feel unattractive, frustrated, confused, and forced into masculinity.

They feel that their partners do not find them attractive, or that their dates just want to be friends.

And everyone misses out on playful, uninhibited nooky.

Let me make a couple of points clear here: So what’s going on here?

Why are men hiding their sexuality and avoiding rejection?

Has your man really lost interest in you, or is there something darker happening behind the scenes?

I want to help women with these issues in two ways.

Firstly, understand what is happening psychologically with your man (or that guy you just dated who didn’t try to kiss you). There are a number of contributing causes to male passive sexuality.

I’ve learned of many, through my own experiences, psychological research, and the many anecdotes of both my male and female clients. The initial feminist movement was great for gaining equal rights for women in most countries. Once religion stops ruling the moral sphere for society we might even achieve some sort of gender-equality.

But like all extreme movements, it went too far in some areas.

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